We like each other. He says he wants to spoil me and look after me. We agreed at the beginning that we are both looking for long term relationship. He makes excuses when I say shall we go and do x y z but then says come to mine I will cook you can stay over no sex as I will stay on the couch. What will you do if men decided to just pay for sex, instead of dealing with your insecurity. But then he does the sexually explicit talking combined with deeper conversation. Should I allow graphic sexual talk? Should I make him stop? Should sexting wait till we know each other enough, like actual sex?
Amazing, smart, funny guys, with female friends and a reputation for being astonishing. The truth is, great, eligible, sexy guys staying virgins into adulthood is a growing trend, a new average. So where do you go as of here? How can you maintain your integrity, develop confidence, and get the sweet, sweet loving you so desire?