Take a chance and ask a girl out on a date. But do note — there is a way about asking. The ask is important because it implies intention. Second, you are showing consideration by recommending a venue and third, you are being assertive in your ask and have provided a date in the near future. Ask her for a drink, not for coffee The time and place of the first date matters. You may think that dinner is too much of a commitment and want to test the waters first. Choose the venue according to the type of experience and emotions you want to inspire. You have to be conscious of body language and pick up signs of interest. A light touch on her arm or behind her back.
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